The webtoon is going to be fantastic, with many ups and downs in Haesong’s life. Keep it a secret from your mother! webtoon is about Romance, School Life, and Slice of Life story. The story was written by Noah and illustrations by Noah. This Ongoing webtoon was released in 2021. Keep it a secret from your mother! Manhwa is also known as (AKA) “엄마한텐 비밀이야 / Secret to your mom/secret to your mother”. The main character has no love angel because he has been too busy studying lately, but as Nayeon assures him, students who study too hard also enjoy their lives.Įven the Class President enjoys life while studying too hard, which changes Haesong’s mindset and marks the beginning of the webtoon’s true story. Not to Mentioned Haesong came in second place despite the fact that he is still swamped with projects and studies, and he even sleeps on a bench while studying. She is been taking care of him for a year because his mom asked to do so. That’s how he ends up living with his aunt and her daughter Nayeon.Īunt Yeona is Haesong’s Mother’s friend. His mother called him and said to live with his aunt Yeona, who lives nearby. Haesong Thought his mother would let that happen but as soon as he reached Seoul. Haesong asked his mom about the promise she made earlier to let him live alone when he go to Seoul. Their current family circumstances would be difficult to pay his school fee but as he managed to secure second place he got a scholarship to manage that. He secured the second position so he got a scholarship too. Have you and your mum (separately – Rohleder thought it was important for you to untangle your grief from your mum’s) looked into bereavement counselling? Perhaps if your mum had somewhere to “bring” her grief that would be one less thing for you to worry about.Haesong (the Main Character of the Webtoon Keep it a secret From your Mother Webtoon) got qualified for school in Seoul. Sometimes it’s helpful to move away from pain but sometimes we have to face into it, and work through it.” Rohleder wondered how much your losses had been spoken of and how much your own grief “has been worked through. We wondered what growing up was like and if you felt the burden of making your mum happy, and if being with your mother is possibly a reminder of the pain you want to get away from yourself? Can you accept that some visits/conversations won’t be ideal? Do you feel that she will die if you don’t stay in touch? “Maybe even as a baby you picked up an emotional atmosphere, that there was a grief you had to make better.” Babies are masters at picking up moods and non-verbal cues. He noted immediately the loss of a child born before you. I consulted clinical psychologist and psychoanalytic psychotherapist Poul Rohleder. If you deplete yourself you won’t have very much left for yourself/your children. You have your own losses to deal with and you have young children and they are your priority. But you are not responsible for your mother. ![]() Your mother probably has a lot of “caring” to give that is now fully focused in your direction and I would guess she is actually quite scared to fully let herself care for you for fear of another loss, hence also being mean (this is not an excuse however). ![]() You are treading a very tight line and one a lot of readers will recognise, the one between retaining some sanity for yourself but being a “good enough” daughter. What a huge amount of loss you and your mother have suffered. I feel I need to try harder, be kinder and more patient, but I really am trying my hardest and I do suspect that actually she is a bit angry with me and is pretty mean to me from time to time. I feel very guilty about our relationship, but also powerless. I often dread seeing her, but know I shouldn’t given I am all she has left. I feel I have to tiptoe around her, validate her and let her critical comments go over my head. She wants to be thought of as helpful to me with the kids (but she isn’t really). She has an excellent friendship network, including great neighbours. She is in her mid-70s, in good health but always tired. I love her very much but I feel responsible for her and guilty that I live so far away. My mum has called the loss of my dad the hardest of all – she says it compounds all the other losses (she was dealing fairly well with them all before his death). I often dread seeing her now, but know that I shouldn’t, given I am all she has left.
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